Friday, July 16, 2010

Goodbye to China


Wow... I thought about what I would write today for my last post from China. I am so thankful that we've made it to this point. We have a beautiful little daughter and she is soon to be a US citizen. She will no longer be destined for the hard life that would have been hers had she stayed here with "parents unknown" listed on her birth certificate. Orphans are considered to be "bad luck" here. When you meet Mia, and I so hope you do, you will see this little girl is anything but "bad luck". I know that we are about to take her from the only home she has ever known, but I know the one I'm taking her to is better. She now can be raised in a family who trust God... not Buddha. She can go to school, go on vacation, have friends, attend college, and choose her own life. But most importantly, when the chips are down, when the day has been rough, when it is Christmas time, or a birthday... she has a home... a home with a mama, a daddy, brothers , grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins to go to to be loved. She will never be alone. She has us... for better, for worse. For someone who has ALWAYS had the gift of a loving, supportive family, the thought of being an orphan is mind-boggling. God does not intend for us to be orphaned. He intends for us all to be in a loving family. He proved this with the gift of His own Son... who came to rescue us all. Griff and I feel so humbled that God called us to such a wonderful thing as adopting one of these precious children into our family. She will be our daily reminder of the love of Christ, of the importance of home. I encourage ALL of you to search your hearts, to pray diligently on what God may want you and your family to do for "the least of these". There are orphans everywhere... not just in China. There are orphans in our own hometown. Adoption is one way, the best way to help these children. Other ways are through orphanage sponsorship... like "Love Without Boundaries", "Half the Sky", and others. The latest statistic I saw on Orphan Sunday last November, was that if only 6% of the Christian population adopted one orphan, there would be no orphans left in the world. The main thing is do something. Ask God to give you clear direction. We have seen firsthand that God smiles on obedience and He blesses those who bless. We have a feeling that our blessing is just beginning.
To our boys: We have missed you more that you will ever know. This has been hard to leave you for such a long time, but we know that bringing Mia home is very important and that you understand. It won't be long now and we will all be home together. Can't wait to see you in Birmingham.
For those of you who are local, we are set to arrive in Birmingham on Sunday, July 18 at 8:18 pm. If you feel led to come, please do. Again, for all of you... thanks for the prayers and for your kind words of encouragement and support. We thank God for you all. Almost home...

"I will not leave you as orphans... I will come to you." John 14:18

Much love,
Ashley

6 comments:

  1. What a beautiful post Ashley. Well said.

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  2. http://kissesfromkatie.blogspot.com/ another orphan orgainization (local to us from our church). katie will blow your mind. love ya'll and so happy to have you!

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  3. Ashley-
    I am crying right now from your beautiful post. We can't wait to meet Mia- safe travels!
    Meredith

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  4. Cannot believe you are headed home....can't wait til you are back with the boys...what a beautiful post...so glad she is finally in your arms:) God is so good! Jennifer

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  5. Ashley you spoke truth here! I have over the years through our work with Our Creator's Hope and support of orphan ministries have stressed those same points. I have heard people say, "don't you realize that there are millions of children everywhere and the need is so great, there is no possible way I can make a difference" The reality is that you changing one life is making difference. We are all called to care and do something to help orphans.... for some its adoption; for others is supporting organizations and families that care for these little ones!! It really does not matter were you do your work (US or abroad), what matters is that you fulfill God's calling. Welcome Home!!! Looking forward to our journey to China in a few months as well!!

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  6. Ashley,
    Welcome home!
    Was thinking about you all last night! I know you are exhausted, but so glad to be home for good! CONGRATULATIONS! So excited and happy for you all! Cannot wait to hear about your trip back and your homecoming!
    Love,
    Kim (Bickerstaff) Woodard

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